Congratulations on your engagement! Touring wedding venues is one of the most exciting steps engaged couples do when planning your big day. Choosing the perfect location sets the tone for your outdoor wedding and creates the backdrop for your lifelong memories. But while you’re deciding which wedding venues near Lake Martin to visit, make sure you include Mistletoe Bough B&B and Wedding Venue, but you might also wonder: Who should come along on the tour?
Here’s a guide to help you assemble the right group to make the most out of your wedding venue tour.
Your Fiancé
Your partner is the most important person to have by your side during this process. After all, this is your wedding day, and it’s essential that both of you feel a connection to the venue. Discuss your preferences beforehand and use the tour as an opportunity to envision your celebration together. I recommend your initial tour be just you and your fiancé because it allows you to have discussion about the pros and cons of the Lake Martin wedding venue without outside influence from others. On a second walk through, you might find it beneficial to bring other important family members, but we recommend keeping it small initially.
Parents or Close Family Members
If your parents (or other close family members) are contributing financially or have a strong emotional investment in your wedding, bringing them along can be helpful. However, ideally, this should happen on the second walk through. They might ask practical questions you hadn’t thought of or notice details you might overlook. However, limit the number of family members to avoid feeling overwhelmed by differing opinions. Too many people on the tour can be distracting and can oftentimes lead to off topic discussions, etc.
A Trusted Friend or Maid of Honor
Your maid of honor or a trusted friend can provide an outside perspective and moral support. They know you well and can help you focus on what aligns with your style and vision. Plus, it’s always fun to have someone share in the excitement of the day.
People To Leave At Home
While it’s tempting to bring everyone who’s excited about your wedding, too many opinions can muddy the waters and lead to a very chaoric and unproductive wedding tour. Here are a few people you might consider leaving at home:
Extended Family or Large Friend Groups: The more people you bring, the harder it is to focus on what you want.
Anyone Overly Opinionated: It’s your day, and the final decision should reflect your vision.
Tips for a Successful Venue Tour
Come Prepared: Bring a list of questions, a notebook, and a camera to document your visit.
Discuss Non-Negotiables: Talk to your fiancé(e) beforehand about your must-haves and dealbreakers.
Stay Open-Minded: Venues may surprise you in ways you hadn’t expected, so keep an open heart and mind. We are a newer venue in our area, so many people are utterly delighted when they learn about the beauty of Mistletoe Bough B&B and Wedding Venue.
In Summary
Bringing the right people to your wedding venue tour ensures you make a confident, informed decision about where to say “I do.” Keep your group small and intentional, and focus on those who will enhance the experience without overshadowing your preferences. Happy venue hunting, but before you go.....
We want to invite you to schedule a venue tour at Mistletoe Bough B&B in Alexander City, AL. Mistletoe is on the National Historic Register and construction was completed in 1895. Mistletoe is a perfect venue for the most romantic wedding of your dreams. You can reach us by phone 256-329-3717, or by completing the contact form at www.mistletoebough.com/weddings
Did you know…when you choose a locally owned wedding venue you are helping to develop and improve the local economy? It’s true, your locally owned wedding venues are small business owners who not only create hundreds of jobs for the local wedding industry every year, we actively support our local economy. Please consider a locally owned venue, you can find locally owned wedding venues featured on this wedding venue map. Here are a few to whom we want to give a shoutout.
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